Is it Even Possible to Always be Fine? So Why to Answer Every HRU as 'I'm Fine'??

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How are you?
I am fine, thanks

How are you? 
I am fine too and the conversation goes on like this...
When I was a kid, my mom taught me, if someone asks you: how are you; u have to say I AM FINE When I went to school my teacher taught me the same.
How strange is this? We were never taught that there can be different answers to this question,"HOW ARE YOU?"
 

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Did you Ever Answered Anyone How Do you Exactly Feel?

From a very young age we are taught to keep our feelings to ourselfs. Thus, the answer to the question always comes as 'I'm fine even if we aren't...

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Say what you feel

Instead of telling kids to express how they actually feel, we make them cram I AM FINE and years later those kids robotically answer the same for every HOW ARE YOU? asked in their life!

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Weather you are happy, sad, depressed, suicidal or feel numb, there is just one thing on the tip of our tongue, I AM FINE.

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Never Teach your Children to Expect or Say 'I'm Fine' if they are Not!

I wish parents and teachers not anymore teach that answer of every HOW ARE YOU? to be I AM FINE.

I wish kids are raised to be more vocal about their feelings from a very young age, so they are mentally healthy as adults !